Originating in Latin indulgentia, the word indulgence describes or symbolizes the ease or willingness to forgive eventual blame or grant a Grace . The concept is also used in the religious framework to name the referral against the Be supreme or divinity of temporary penalties corresponding to sins that have already been forgiven after the intervention of the church .
According to Catholic theology, therefore, the temporary punishment imposed after a sin It can be benefited through indulgence or remission under certain conditions and according to the concessions or criteria of certain Church exponents.
Unlike the penance wave reconciliation , indulgence does not forgive sins, but offers an exemption from temporary punishment (either earthly or after death, in purgatory). The Pope, bishops and cardinals are the ones who can grant indulgence in exchange for various actions or rituals.
Although indulgence is not a sacrament , constitutes a very important aspect of Catholic doctrine. Experts say that one of the reasons that led to Martin Luther to stand up against the Catholic Church to boost the protestant reform , it was his disagreement with the traffic of indulgences.
At present, indulgences are still maintained as part of Catholic doctrine, although they have lost importance due to the change in historical context.
Beyond the religion, the indulgence is linked to the inclination to forgive and conceal the errors. For example: "I know he was wrong but in my opinion you should be more forgiving of your brother", “Do not think that I will show indulgence: the only thing that interests me is that they fulfill what was promised”.
Natural Parenting and Indulgence
Contrary to system of rules and principles massively adopted when raising a person, there is an older procedure, based on meet the real needs of the kids. It is called Natural Aging, and it proposes a balanced and (at best) fair treatment, which seeks to educate without imposing, focusing on the particular characteristics of each individual, instead of blindly taking the advice scattered by the supposed experts.
His defenders say that this is the way children were raised in the past, trying to combat derogatory labels that reduce him to a mere whim that seeks to oppose without reason the customs taken by the majority. In fact, the basis of Natural Parenting is freedom, diversity.
Very often this methodology is confused with indulgence, and a judgment could not be made further from reality. There are various types of demands that children make, ranging from asking for a hug to a sweet. In these extremes you can see a clear difference between what is desired and what is needed. Natural Parenting focuses on this last point, which makes it difficult for the parents to work, demanding much more attention from their children and denying them the possibility of soothe a cry with a treat.
On the other hand, in a type family, indulgence extends far beyond childhood, and is the protagonist of great injustices that mark the lifetime of a lot of people. Just as when defining this concept it is almost impossible not to name religion, the same thing happens with machismo; Male children are usually forgiven much more easily and often than women, even when talking about equivalent mistakes. On the other hand, perhaps the most worrying aspect is that it tends to forgive to avoid confrontation with the problems, which camouflages the indulgence of openness or empathy.